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Forgetting is so long

October 25, 2006

Forgetting is so long  i long for selective amnesia to happen to me. i want to close a seemingly never-ending chapter of my life.

but i cannot seem to place the final dot. you are a stubborn face that refuses to leave my dreams… will you please stop pickin’ on me? 

i have tried to bury your memory and the pain you have caused me in heaps of debris collected from everyday trivialities. i have tried to forget how you raised my hopes and dashed them to pieces again and again and again.

i have tried to pretend that whatever it was we had was only a figment of my imagination. oh, how I how tried! alas, to no avail. 

yes, it is never easy.  

and time? time will not heal it. time will only allow my heart to get used to the numbing ache. 

Love is so short, forgetting is so long.” (Pablo Neruda)

question of the day: why comment anonymously?

September 16, 2006

I am by nature a curious person which means i like to ask questions. Commenting anonymously is a phenomenon that I don’t understand. Why do people do it? In fact, why do YOU do it?

I find the idea of commenting anonymously at the least peculiar but at most annoying. Why leave a comment on somebody’s blog then sign it anonymous? If I believe in one thing enough to comment on, I’d put my name on it, declaring I stood by what I believe in. If I comment “cute babe”, “fabulous hair”, etc., I’d sign with my name to show that the admiration or appreciation came from me, and not from someone unknown to the blog owner.

Oh, okay so maybe there are times that we accidentally tripped the comment anonymously checkmark; yes, it could happen. But that isn’t what I’m talking about. I’m talking about deliberate, thought-about-beforehand commenting anonymously.

I can think of only ONE reason why people comment anonymously:

• obviously they would like to keep their identities secret (chances are they are probably someone you know)

But why keep your identity a secret? Is it to avoid having an unpopular opinion associated with you (and quite possibly avoiding losing subscribers to your blog as a result)? Or is it have the license to use bad language and drop the niceties of common courtesy? Or both?

Silverwhisper has something to say about this. Quote: I won’t go as far as to assume that all who comment anonymously are cowards, as they are described over at slashdot (the precise term over there is “anonymous coward”, or simply AC), because it assumes a certain degree of bad faith on the part of people who do post anonymously, and as i said, i don’t understand it so making such assumptions seems, at the very least, premature and prejudicial. Unquote.

That being said: OK, so maybe it’s just me. I’m curious and I got my opinions. Granted I gave out particularly unpleasant reasons, but I did say I didn’t understand it. So if you do comment anonymously, can you share your reasons for doing so?

Hello World Wide Web!

August 19, 2006

The cliche goes: “And when we are forgotten, we cease to exist.” and “If you don’t write things down, you’ll forget them”.

But why do I write?

I write to commune with the world.

I write because it is a prized liberty.

meet yessa

I write for Yessa. She fills my days with smiles and laughter.

She is the love of my life.

And for now, I am her memory so that she will never forget.